How to cheer up a girl and make her laugh: 7 proven ways

Believe me, you don't have to be a professional comedian.

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As you know, one of the main traits of men that many women value is a healthy sense of humor. And this is not surprising, because the ability to cheer up is also associated with wit, creativity, a sense of tact and many other useful qualities.

In this material we will tell you how to cheer up a girl so that she not only laughs, but also feels better. Our advice is ideal for guys who don’t understand how to behave in such situations, and all they can do is say: “Well, don’t be sad, everything will be fine.”

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How to cheer up your friend when she's sad

• Whatever the reason for the girl’s blues, switching her thoughts to something positive and relaxing will help lift her mood. Going to the movies, exhibitions, the circus, or just a walk in the park can do the job perfectly.
• It is believed that activity, physical and mental, is an excellent remedy for low spirits. Jogging together, going to the gym, cycling and rollerblading will help dispel any sadness.
• You can also diversify a simple trip to a cafe and invite your friend to choose any board game.
• Time flies by while playing games, and there is simply no time to think about events that make you sad.

Try not to remind about the things that led to a bad mood, maintain a positive attitude and show by example what a good mood and joy in life are.

Why is it so important to be able to make a girl laugh?

First, show us a person who doesn't like to laugh. It is unlikely that there will be such a person, because laughter is a rather pleasant state that relaxes vigilance, helps you relax and simply trust a person who can make you laugh properly.

Just think about your close friends, aren't you just busy with them laughing every fifteen minutes? The same principles apply when you're talking to a girl.

If she laughs with you, it means she is comfortable, and she will be ready to continue communicating with you simply because it is pleasant. Moreover, the ability to make people laugh can compensate for some other shortcomings that you quite likely have (for example, a crooked nose or empty pockets).

Therefore, always try to be the same guy with whom she has fun and ease. Without this, the chances of success are extremely low.

Methods to improve a girl's mood

The methods presented are similar. In any difficult situation, the beloved needs a touching, caring attitude.

In case of problems at work

If your beloved is overtired at work or faces difficulties, it is worth giving her quality rest. You can buy her certificates for shopping or spa treatment. It is worth ordering delicious dishes at home or visiting a restaurant. A good way out is a mini-trip. If your significant other is a lover of thrills, you can go through a horror quest or have fun on the rides. She will enjoy extreme excursions (abandoned buildings, rooftops, night quests).

In addition to entertainment, the girl will enjoy the sincere care of her partner. Solving even one problem will give her hope and encouragement. It is necessary to find out what worries your loved one and eliminate the trouble. This could be a domestic problem or a conflict. Both points are quite correctable. The girl will see in the gentleman a knight, a protector.

You can create a romantic homemade gift that will touch your partner. Drawings, accessories, and interior elements are suitable. You can glue a box, weave a bracelet, or make a shelf. The beloved will appreciate the guy’s work and efforts.

During depression

This is a complex psychological diagnosis, so it is worth suggesting that your significant other visit a psychologist. A prolonged illness indicates problems in the body. It is not always possible to fight them on your own. When offering such a solution to your partner, it is important to remain tactful and affectionate. In order for your friend to agree, you should go with her to a specialist.

If the blues do not last long, and there are no symptoms of depression as an illness, it is worth surrounding your chosen one with affection and attention. You need to wipe away her tears, repeat her compliments, recreate happy memories. You cannot leave your beloved alone for a long time. She needs impressions, communication, emotions. Festivals and concerts are suitable.

To lift the mood, a girl needs to be given gentle touches. Let morning caresses become a ritual. After waking up, your companion should immediately be hugged and kissed. While walking, she should also feel her own hand. This gesture proves the guy's caring attitude.

When she's sick

If your beloved is sick, you need to show the most touching care. It is important to leave small symbols of love near her. They will support the girl while her partner is not around. A list of acts of caring that can cheer up a sad girl:

1. Read a cozy fairy tale or poem to make your loved one fall asleep.
2. Give a fluffy toy that the girl can hug. If the toy has a pocket, you can secretly leave warm wishes in it.
3. You can attach a calendar next to her bed with gentle encouraging phrases next to each date.
4. A homemade medicine box will make treatment less bitter. The box should be decorated with an inspiring inscription.
5. A cozy homemade blanket, favorite mug, and warm scarf will create comfort even in a depressing hospital ward.

If she's just bored

A caring guy will study his girlfriend’s tastes and find out what makes her happy. This will help him please the girl if she is not in the mood. To overcome boredom, you need to plan a free day for your loved one:

1. Surprise her in the morning: make an appetizing, beautifully decorated breakfast, serve it with a bouquet of flowers. You can write confessions on food, draw hearts.
2. Constantly distract from the cause of sadness with affection, surprises, and a walk.
3. Give your beloved a real day off (protect her from all her usual worries).
4. In the evening, take care of a gourmet dinner (cook it yourself or invite your chosen one to a reputable restaurant).
5. End the day with a relaxing massage.

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To make her laugh

First, it is important to find out what type of humor the chosen one has: ironic, intellectual, black. Different ladies need to be entertained in different ways. Stories should be supported by bright facial expressions, and sometimes a joke works better if told calmly, without emotion. It is worth choosing the appropriate option:

1. Tell a cool story from your own past.
2. Remember modern non-vulgar jokes.
3. Gently make fun of the situation and those around you. Evil ridicule can be off-putting.
4. Invent an absurd fairy tale or tell an existing surreal story. It is important to warn that this is fiction.

Don't joke non-stop. It is better to demonstrate the ability to make people laugh several times, rather than turning the dialogue into a stand-up routine. A guy who only amuses his interlocutor will be perceived by her only as a funny friend.

If we're talking about a stranger

Before starting a conversation with a stranger, you should instantly win her over. Subtle and tactful humor provides an atmosphere of friendliness and relaxation. The joke must be appropriate to the situation and concern both interlocutors. This will liberate the stranger and set her up for communication, even if at this moment she does not want to contact anyone. You need to speak with a smile, softly, unobtrusively. If a lady turns out to be well-mannered, she will definitely smile.

A little creativity

You can invent a new special way to cheer up your significant other or use popular ready-made options:

1. Order a song to be performed near your loved one’s home. You can be together or at a distance. All that is required from the gentleman are words of love.
2. Send a video message from the girl's pet. This method is suitable if your other half is far away and misses your pet.
3. Write fifty love notes (in prose or poetry) with affectionate words, fill a cute jar with them. You need to put a label on the container that says “Why I’m in love.” You can tie the dishes with a ribbon, decorate them with a flower or a bow.
4. Make “letters of memory.” The jar is filled with short notes describing touching moments from the history of relationships (acquaintance, beginning of school). You can make a book with emotional stories, decorate it with romantic photographs and drawings.
5. Make messages in balloons. They put love notes in the balloons, inflate them and invite the chosen one to “pop” them together. If your companion is very bored, then you can hide the balls.

What to write to a girl to make her smile

Wishes for a good day in the morning

A good morning wish can put you in a good mood for the whole day - especially if it comes from a person who likes a girl. Write to her in the morning that today will certainly be a good day, let her smile more often, and, as usual, charge everything around with her bright energy. You can send her a cute postcard - a kitten frolicking on the grass; snowy city; a snowdrop breaking through the melting snow; a forest path illuminated by the sun and the like. In general, choose what seems most appropriate to you and what the girl will probably like.

Funny short sms

If something funny happens to you, then you can tell the girl about it via SMS. If nothing like this happened, then just send her jokes that are full of many groups on social networks. Choose short jokes so that girls don’t have to spend a lot of time reading them.

Send a funny video

Many people love to watch funny videos, and perhaps your loved one is no exception. Send her something funny, related to animals, for example. Avoid vulgar or downright stupid videos. Please note that a joke that you can tell a friend will not always be received with a bang by the girl.

Compliments are always a win-win

Girls love compliments, and this is an indisputable fact. If you saw each other recently or today, you can write to her: “You were wearing a very beautiful dress, for some reason I remember it,” “I never tire of being amazed at what an incredible eye color you have,” “You look especially gorgeous today.” If you have personal communication, then give compliments right away, without putting them off for later.

On distance

Modern communication options significantly help lovers to feel close to each other, even at a distance from each other.
There are many ways to maintain constant close communication. They are enough to say at least one word in difficult times: “I love.” It is this that can improve your well-being and immediately lift your spirit. This procedure can be done in different ways:

• send a confession video;
• forward SMS;
• share music or a picture.

In words

Competently expressed verbal compliments also help if you follow the measure and do not overdo it.
Girls always appreciate beautiful words that are directly related to them. A few good compliments are enough to immediately improve their mood. Funny jokes and funny stories will cheer you up. But you definitely need to take into account the girl’s character, since a reserved lady needs to tell her story clearly. When a friend has a sense of humor, she will appreciate an interesting anecdote or a funny situation.

In verse

It is incredibly nice for any girl to receive a declaration of love in poetry.
You can compose them yourself (if you have the ability) or find suitable rhymes on the Internet:

• “What happened, baby, are you really sad now? I need your smile, stop it, don’t be angry. Just share your sadness, I will eliminate it, I will remove all your troubles with my hands.”
• “I love you even when you’re sad, although you don’t need to be so sad. After all, having a smile on your face makes life more beautiful.”
• “Look at the beautiful day, stop being sad. Raise your nose, widen your smile, soon everything will get better.”

What topics are best not touched upon in jokes?

Everyone's sense of humor is different. If you haven’t yet studied the girl’s character enough and don’t know how best to cheer her up, proceed as carefully as possible. When you are not one hundred percent sure that your humor will be liked, do not use the following jokes to make a girl laugh:

1. About her appearance. It is unlikely that she will appreciate humor about her big ears or butt. Perhaps your male friends enjoy these jokes about their prominent body parts. But women do not welcome such behavior.
2. About your former passions. Even if it seems very funny to you to make another unflattering statement towards your ex-woman. But your friend may think that you, in principle, do not respect the fair sex and will someday respond to her in the same way.
3. With black humor. Not all girls, especially vulnerable ones, will accept such jokes. You may appear to be a cruel person, and changing your impression of yourself is not easy.
4. With swear words. Even if the lady does not belong to the heiress of blue blood, it is unlikely that she will be happy with the cobbler's vocabulary sounding from your lips.
5. With vulgarities. Humor below the belt can hardly really cheer up a sad lady. Guys usually use these kinds of jokes with friends over a beer or with girls they don’t take seriously.

Not all men have a great sense of humor. But everything in this life can be learned. Start small, and the ability to cheer a girl up and bring a sincere smile to her face will definitely come with experience. Even if you couldn't cheer her up this time, don't be upset. Analyze the situation and joke differently next time.