“So... let's begin. You relax, immersing yourself in calm and serenity. The breathing becomes deeper and deeper. There is no need to think about anything... worry... Just keep listening to the sound of my voice. Focus on how good you feel now... How relaxation takes over you more and more,” this is how any hypnotist begins his session.
Audio porn: a new stage in the development of hypnosis
Erotic hypnosis is a phenomenon that arose along with the development of classical hypnosis. Such a direction in psychology as NLP (neurolinguistic programming) also contributed to its development. It's hard to believe, but thanks to erotic hypnosis, listeners have the opportunity to achieve orgasm without even touching the body. Otherwise, this type of hypnosis is simply called: audio porn. It is believed that this type of sensual stimulation is best combined with BDSM.
To better understand the features of audio porn, let’s pay a little attention to what hypnosis itself is. This term refers to the manipulation of human consciousness in order to achieve a certain desired result. In other words, the hypnosis leader controls the physical, psychological and mental state of the client.
This is done with the aim of introducing some positive changes. As a rule, in psychology, hypnosis is used to get rid of complexes, increase self-esteem, and work through past traumas. Numerous scientific studies have shown that trance has significant effects on our brain.
Types of waves in hypnosis 2
Let's take a short digression to understand how this effect occurs. Neurologists know of five different types of brain waves recorded using an electroencephalograph (EEG).
These types have different frequencies and are constantly present in different areas of the brain. However, one type of waves always dominates at one time or another, which is determined by the general state of a person - what he thinks about, what he feels, how relaxed he is. These are the types:
- Delta waves (0.5 - 3 Hz). They occur during dreamless sleep and at the deepest levels of meditation and hypnosis.
- Theta waves (3 - 8 Hz). They also appear during sleep, meditation, and hypnosis. Theta waves are closely related to memory, intuition and the subconscious.
- Beta waves (12–38 Hz). They are activated in those moments when a person is thinking about problems, is busy making decisions, or other types of concentrated mental activity.
- Alpha waves (8 - 12 Hz). Occurs in relatively calm moments. They are closely associated with calmness and slight relaxation. The alpha state helps improve coordination of movements, the learning process, and the integration of consciousness and the unconscious.
- Gamma waves (38 Hz and higher) manifest themselves in a state of love, happiness, and spiritual uplift. Gamma waves facilitate the simultaneous processing of information from different parts of the brain. They usually do not appear in a hypnotic state.
So, a hypnotist is a person who uses words to manipulate the client’s consciousness. During the sessions, the facilitator moves him from the beta state to a more relaxed alpha, theta and delta trance. It is under these conditions that the unconscious is fully revealed. Some people experience deep relaxation; others see vivid hallucinations; in still others, repressed memories are activated.
From this it can be seen that all of the above effects make hypnosis a very valuable tool for BDSM practitioners. Trance goes well with the psychological space in which the submissive is during the session.
Features of the emergence of love
To better understand the possibilities of hypnosis in matters of love, you need to clearly define what kind of feeling it is, and also understand what criteria are used to generate it.
Love is a feeling of deep sympathy characteristic of a person, which manifests itself in deep affection. It arises from a natural desire for unity with a loved one.
From a physiological and psychological point of view, love can be considered as an evolutionary mechanism aimed at finding a partner for joint procreation. The criteria for choosing a love object are consciously or unconsciously formed under the influence of:
- the example of parents and other authorities;
- public perceptions and rules;
- children's stereotypes and fantasies;
- education;
- social status and other factors.
This entire complex of external influences forms a person’s general idea of a potential chosen one. In the process of life, it is transformed under the influence of lived experience, while maintaining the foundation laid in childhood.
What ideas influence the emergence of love:
- Appearance, facial features, eye and hair color, body structure, height.
- Features of the voice.
- Behavior.
- Interests.
- Fashion style.
- The main occupation in life.
- Features of thinking.
There are quite a lot of such representations. When we meet a person whose properties are close to our ideas, sympathy arises, which develops into love with further communication.
Love is an evolutionary mechanism formed by our consciousness and subconscious, aimed at finding a partner for joint life and reproduction.
Stages of erotic hypnosis3
How do hypnotists achieve power over consciousness? It turns out that they follow a certain general algorithm of actions. It consists of the following steps:
- Negotiation stage. The client and the hypnotist discuss the ultimate goals of hypnosis and the boundaries of safety.
- Induction. The hypnotist gradually introduces the client into a trance state. There are a number of techniques for this. For example, using special breathing exercises, or contemplating a specific object for a long period of time. Pendulums, metronomes, and sparkling objects are good for inducing trance. At this stage, access to the subconscious opens.
- Deepening. As soon as the client enters a trance, the hypnotist moves on to techniques for deepening this state, and also directs the process in a certain direction.
- Suggestions. The hypnotist now gets to the heart of the practice by explicitly manipulating the client's thoughts and feelings. For example: “Whenever you hear my voice, you feel the urge to obey my words. And it gives a very pleasant feeling.”
- Return. The final stage in which the hypnotist can reverse some of the suggestions. For example: “You now come out of your trance and no longer feel submissive when you hear my voice.” The client gradually emerges from the hypnotic state.
- Closing conversation. At this stage, what happened is discussed, as well as the compliance of pre-set goals with the results achieved.
The general structure of hypnosis is simple. But the exact speech of the hypnotist can always vary, revealing greater possibilities for suggestion.
How to hypnotize your wife yourself. Sexual power of the hypnotist
A separate category of criminal hypnosis can be called sexual crimes based on hypnosis, hypnotherapy and psychotherapy, when individuals, pretending to be therapists and using their medical power, seduce innocent patients.
This possibility was already discussed during the time of Puysegur. But if Puysegur denied the possibility of criminal influence, then there was an opposite point of view, which was represented by D'Eslon, who relied on Mesmer's theory of magnetism. He believed that a magnetizer could prevail over a woman who had reached a so-called crisis (catharsis in the process of psychotherapy).
A little later, Joseph Deleuze (1753-1835) discovers the so-called objective relations, on which, in his opinion, hypnosis is based. Subject relations are what in modern psychology is called transfer, i.e. it is a special, emotionally charged relationship between therapist and patient. Such relationships usually arise due to the secrecy of the doctor's personality, which forces the patient to interpret it in his own way, i.e. the projection mechanism is turned on. The patient can project onto the doctor images of people close to him, for example, mom or dad, because the doctor, just like these people, takes care of the patient. This is also accompanied by close physical contact, when the hypnotist sits almost point-blank in the patient, squeezing her knees between his own, and circling her entire body with passes (this is how they worked in Mesmer’s time). Finally, the figure of the doctor itself is sometimes attractive to patients, because a doctor is a confident, outrageous, strong, but at the same time caring person. From all these factors, strong sexual attraction sometimes arises. And cases of its selfish use are not so rare.
What is it like to be hypnotized?4
In society, it is believed that a person subject to hypnosis is completely under the control of the hypnotist. As soon as you tell him something stupid, he will immediately do it; and yet will not remember anything when he awakens from the trance.
This is not entirely true. The fact is that the hypnotist receives exactly as much control over the client's consciousness as the client gives him. For example, if a person initially has the intention not to take out the trash, then no order from the hypnotist to take out the trash will make him do it.
Not everyone plunges into a trance to such a state that they then remember nothing about what is happening. It also depends on the desire of the person, his suggestibility, the degree of his own control over the body and consciousness.
Countering love hypnosis
Anyone can fall under the influence of love hypnosis techniques. To protect yourself from such exposure, you need to follow some rules:
- Don't give in to emotions. Always act wisely. Weigh your actions and evaluate the consequences.
- Understand the mechanism of suggestion - any phrase, touch, glance can be aimed at exerting influence.
- Evaluate the behavior of your interlocutor. Catch repeated phrases, monotonous actions, emotional messages.
- Do not look long and intently into the eyes of your interlocutor. Do not allow your hand to be stroked or manipulated with light touches.
- Maintain your comfort zone—be at a comfortable distance from your interlocutor.
- Monitor your interlocutor’s breathing, speech and phrases - you can’t let them adjust.
To protect yourself from influence using love hypnosis, you cannot subordinate your will to the desires of another person. One must always adhere to established personal views and opinions.
Goals of erotic hypnosis5
So, why is this skill used in the sensory sphere? Let's look at a few of its main goals.
- Elimination of fears and complexes associated with sex and sexuality.
- Increased sensuality in a certain area of the body. The hypnotist may, for example, suggest to the client that his most sensitive erogenous zone is the elbow.
- Immersion in role-playing game. For example, before the start of a BDSM session, hypnosis facilitates a smooth transition into the image of a submissive.
- Create certain exciting associations. For example, a hypnotist can suggest that certain words or objects cause him excitement.
Is there ethics in all this? 6
In fact, hypnosis is a very powerful weapon. And it is forbidden to use it without the knowledge of the person himself. Alas, all this does not stop pick-up artists who use any means to seduce.
Let's look at some basic tips for those who want to try erotic hypnosis, or are thinking about becoming a hypnotist themselves.
- Discuss all the details before the session. Ask your partner what their preferences and limitations are. Find out if you can touch him while he is in a trance state. Erotic hypnosis can be performed both in combination with physical contact and without it.
- You should not engage in suggestions when you or your partner are under the influence of alcohol or other potent substances. Especially if you don't know each other well yet.
- Always include language in the hypnotic process that sets the recipient up for complete freedom of action. For example: “You can easily communicate with me throughout the entire session,” or “You always have the opportunity to easily and quickly get out of trance.”
- Indicate in advance a simple gesture or movement that can be made in case of discomfort in the hypnotic state. When a person is in deep relaxation, it may be difficult for him to speak.
In general, the basic rule is that any suggestion is carried out only with the consent of the person being suggested. You cannot arbitrarily influence the psyche of a person in a trance or in a state of sleep. He must be aware of all the risks and give his own consent to participate.
The effect of drugs on a woman's body
In girls, the liver has less enzymatic activity, so toxins remain in the blood for a very long time and have a negative effect on the body for a longer time. They affect the functioning of the endocrine system, inhibit the synthesis of female sex hormones and increase the content of male hormones, which leads to a deepening of the voice and the formation of a masculine appearance. Regular drug use leads to the development of the following pathologies:
- mental discomfort and depression with suicidal ideas;
- decreased sexual desire;
- difficulty achieving orgasm while sober;
- sexually transmitted infections;
- irreversible menstrual irregularities and blocking ovulation;
- premature birth;
- low fetal weight;
- birth defects;
- birth of children with mental retardation;
- loss of criticism of one’s condition;
- premature birth;
- involuntary abortions;
- stillbirth.
A pregnant woman using drugs makes her unborn child addicted to drugs before it is even born. Such children are born with withdrawal symptoms. In addition, toxins affect all systems and organs, causing the following diseases:
- severe headaches;
- convulsions;
- psychoses;
- strokes;
- heart attacks;
- hypertension;
- spasm of coronary vessels;
- myo- and endocarditis;
- damage to the lungs and bronchi, severe pneumonia;
- renal and liver failure;
- gastrointestinal pathologies;
- dermatitis, stomatitis;
- complete exhaustion;
- HIV AIDS.
Since drugs affect a woman very quickly, they change her attitude to life and behavior - this is reflected in clothes and appearance. With the systematic use of narcotic substances, the following changes occur:
- hair becomes dull and brittle;
- the face is swollen, bluish or sallow in color;
- yellow skin due to liver dysfunction;
- teeth crumble and darken;
- premature aging;
- specific unpleasant body odor;
- changes in behavior - sexual promiscuity, rudeness, aggression, deceit and manipulation of loved ones, lack of responsibility.
Female drug addiction leads to a decrease in activity, the extinction of the maternal instinct, emotions, drives, and needs. A woman with drug addiction cannot fully raise her children, have normal contact with relatives, or engage in work, which negatively affects the quality of life.
To solve the problem of female drug addiction, long-term complex therapy and long work with psychologists in a specialized medical institution are needed. For a complete recovery, it is necessary to undergo rehabilitation courses in order to avoid breakdowns in difficult life situations. Early treatment can prevent further disruption of the body's functioning and prevent personality disintegration and disability. At the first suspicious signs, you should consult a narcologist.
